Shele Danishefsky Covlin was a respected financial executive, devoted mother, and active member of New York City’s Orthodox Jewish community. Her life appeared to reflect professional success and family stability, but behind the scenes she was navigating a difficult separation and divorce from her husband, Rod Covlin. Her death on December 31, 2009, initially appeared to be a tragic household accident. Instead, it became one of Manhattan’s most closely watched homicide investigations.
More than a decade after her death, the case would lead to the conviction of her estranged husband for murder. Dateline NBC’s “Endgame” revisits the investigation and the determination of family members who refused to accept the original explanation for what happened to Shele.
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A Successful Career and a Devoted Family Life
At the time of her death, Shele was 47 years old and worked as a senior executive in private wealth management at UBS. Colleagues and friends viewed her as accomplished, intelligent, and dedicated to helping clients manage their finances. Her professional success allowed her to provide a comfortable life for her family in Manhattan’s Upper West Side.
Outside of work, Shele was devoted to her two children, Anna and Miles. She was active in her synagogue and maintained strong relationships with family and friends. Those who knew her described her as caring, charitable, and deeply committed to her Jewish faith and community.
A Marriage in Crisis
Shele met Rod Covlin at a Jewish singles event in 1998. The relationship moved quickly, and the couple married within months. They eventually built a family together and appeared to have a successful life in New York City.
Over time, however, the marriage deteriorated. According to testimony and evidence later presented in court, Shele discovered her husband had engaged in multiple affairs. Financial disputes and custody disagreements intensified the conflict. By 2009, the couple was separated and involved in a contentious divorce. Although Rod moved into an apartment across the hall from Shele for the convenience of their children, tensions between them continued to grow.
The Tragic Morning of December 31, 2009
On the morning of New Year’s Eve 2009, Shele’s nine-year-old daughter discovered her mother unresponsive in the bathtub of the family’s apartment. Rod Covlin later told authorities he rushed to the apartment, removed Shele from the tub, attempted CPR, and called 911. Emergency responders pronounced her dead.
Investigators initially believed Shele had suffered a fatal accident after slipping in the bathroom. A damaged cabinet near the bathtub appeared to support that theory. Because her Orthodox Jewish family wished to follow traditional burial practices and authorities did not initially suspect foul play, Shele was buried without an autopsy.
Why Her Family Became Suspicious
Not everyone accepted the accident explanation. Shele’s relatives knew she was involved in a bitter divorce and believed aspects of the scene did not make sense. Their suspicions increased after reviewing details surrounding her death and learning more about the circumstances of her marriage.
The family made the difficult decision to have Shele’s body exhumed. The subsequent autopsy changed everything. Medical examiners discovered a fractured hyoid bone in her neck and concluded that she had died from neck compression. Her manner of death was changed from accidental to homicide.
The Financial Motive Investigators Uncovered
As detectives examined the case, they focused on the financial issues surrounding the couple’s divorce. Prosecutors later argued that Rod Covlin was financially dependent on his wife and stood to inherit millions of dollars if she died before removing him from her estate plans.
Investigators learned that Shele had scheduled a meeting with her estate attorney for January 1, 2010, the day after she died. Prosecutors said she intended to remove Rod from her will, potentially preventing him from receiving more than $5 million. According to the prosecution, this provided a powerful motive for murder.
Justice for Shele
After years of investigation, Rod Covlin was arrested in 2015 and brought to trial in 2019. Prosecutors presented a largely circumstantial case, arguing that he had strangled Shele and staged the scene to look like an accident. The jury agreed and found him guilty of second-degree murder.
He was sentenced to 25 years to life in prison. Subsequent appeals and efforts to overturn the conviction have failed. Courts have repeatedly upheld the verdict, and Rod Covlin remains incarcerated.
Remembering Shele Danishefsky Covlin
Today, Shele is remembered not for the circumstances of her death but for the life she lived. She was a successful financial professional, a devoted mother, and a woman who worked hard to build a future for her children. Friends and family continue to remember her warmth, intelligence, and dedication to those she loved.
Her case also stands as an example of the importance of persistence in criminal investigations. Had her family accepted the original ruling of accidental death, the truth about what happened inside her Manhattan apartment may never have been uncovered. Their determination ultimately led to justice and ensured that Shele’s story would not be forgotten.